I've tried to write this blog post for a week now... Still right now, my palms are sweaty, my heart is beating violently against my chest and I feel the tears start to burn my eyes... I will be brave. I will be brave, because they have to and he was...
I went to school with the Davis family... Russ, Heather and Holly. Holly and I were freshmen together. We had band and cheerleading together and hit it off right away. We'd give Mr. Clay such a hard time!! OH! The memories that flood back when I remember Holly! Before Mr. Clay we had Mr. Sanchez... My goodness! The things we got away with! Somehow, we made our way to the practice rooms daily so we could talk about boys and all the things little 14 year old girls talked about! Read...BOYS! And every so often we play our clarinets so we wouldn't get caught goofing off! We were such goof balls! Holly was ALWAYS there for me. She was always there to listen to me talk about my boy problems! Problems! That makes me giggle!!! I was a mess!
Holly? How did you and Beth deal with me? I was a complete dork!!!! ;-D And Do you remember how Mr.Clay would roll his eyes at us!!! ;-)
I recently re connected with my Holly through Facebook. To see Holly's face was wonderful. Seeing her and her family was comforting to me. To know that Holly was happy and well, made things somehow feel right in the world. It's hard to explain... It just felt right.
Hearing about Russ, and Heather and their families was icing on the cake. Looking through Holly's photos and seeing her whole family happy and together... seeing that Russ Davis has a SON made me giggle. Seeing Heather and Holly with their sons made my heart happy. And Mr. and Mrs. Davis looking EXACTLY the same, was heartwarming.
But, things were not all perfect. Holly's son has major medical issues and in hearing her struggles broke my heart for her. I was having a hard time not driving over there and learning all I could about taking care of Matty, so I could stay up with him and let her and her hubby get much needed sleep!
Matty and Holly are the reason I joined The Littlest Heros Project. I needed to somehow make a difference...
They were my heros.
(Uncle Russ with Matty)
This next part is hard...
On August 13th Russ was badly injured in an accident at work. He was a lineman for PG&E... After serious injuries, difficult surgeries and a strong fight, Russ passed away on August 18th.
My heart breaks for his family. My need to hug Holly becomes so hard at times... Memories of Russ flood my mind and make me want to laugh and cry at the same time. Thinking about his families heartbreak gets overwhelming....
I need to do something.
Russ was an organ donor. His life lives on... in his son, in the people who's lives he has touched, and with the gift he has given so many people with the donation of his organs.
I want to help. I need to help.
Heres what we're going to do...
I will be doing 10 sessions at $100 (regular priced sessions are $450) and all proceeds will go into Andrews trust. AND if you have a donor card or that sticker on your drivers license, we will give you 10% off a regular portrait session. I'm not sure what else we will be doing, but getting the word out about organ donation is going to be a big thing. Stay tuned to hear what we come up with...
( Russ with his son Andrew)
You can purchase a session and give it away as a gift... You can purchase a session and save it for Christmas... I'll make you a cute little gift certificate. You can purchase 4 sessions at once at the $100 price, and that would 4 sessions for less then the price of one.
I'm asking you to help. Russ was a thoughtful person with a great big heart... to say the least. I'm asking you to help me give back.
Please keep the Davis family in your prayers.
Davis family, if you are reading this...
I am so sorry for your loss. I have always been amazed by your family. You are part of the reason I wanted a big family! Now that I'm a mother I know first hand how challenging raising a family is. And Mr. And Mrs. Davis... you did an amazing job.
I can't begin to imagine how difficult this time is... please know my love and prayers are going up for you...
I'm going to stop rereading this post... I'm just going to post it!